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Am I Depressed? Let’s Talk About It

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We’ve all had those days when nothing sounds fun, the couch feels like quicksand, and even scrolling through TikTok seems exhausting. But if you’ve been saying to yourself, “I’m feeling depressed” more often than not, you might be wondering—what’s really going on?

Feeling depressed doesn’t always look like the movie version of sadness with nonstop tears and rain clouds following you around. Sometimes, it’s subtle—like losing interest in your favorite hobbies, feeling tired all the time, or just not caring about things you used to love. Other times, it hits harder, making it difficult to get out of bed or keep up with work, school, and relationships.

In this blog, we’ll break down the difference between “feeling depressed” and clinical depression, explore common symptoms, and share when it’s time to reach out for help. Let’s figure this out together—because understanding what’s going on is the first step to feeling better!

What is Depression?

Depression isn’t just “having a bad day” or feeling a little down after a long week—it’s a real mental health condition that can affect how you think, feel, and handle everyday life. While everyone feels sad sometimes, depression is more intense and sticks around for weeks, months, or even longer.

Think of it like this: sadness is a passing rain shower, but depression can feel like a whole gloomy season that just won’t change. It can drain your energy, make it hard to enjoy things you used to love, and even mess with your sleep, appetite, and concentration.

There are different types of depression too—like major depressive disorder, seasonal affective disorder, and persistent depressive disorder. Head to our blog “What is Clinical Depression” to take a deeper dive into how we define depression.

I’m Feeling Depressed

The term “depressed” has been normalized and misused to the point where people casually throw it around anytime they are feeling sad. Feeling sad from time to time is normal—life throws curveballs. But only when those sad feelings stick around, start affecting your daily life, and match specific patterns, is when you might actually be “feeling depressed”. Here’s a quick guide to help you understand the difference.

Major Depressive Disorder (MDD) / Clinical Depression

To be diagnosed with major depressive disorder, symptoms typically:

  • Last at least two weeks
  • Happen nearly every day
  • Cause significant distress or interfere with work, school, or relationships

Common depression symptoms include:

  • Persistent sadness or emptiness
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in activities you once enjoyed
  • Significant changes in appetite or weight
  • Trouble sleeping (too much or too little)
  • Fatigue or loss of energy
  • Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
  • Feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt
  • Thoughts of death or suicide

Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)

Seasonal affective disorder is a type of depression linked to changes in seasons—most common in fall and winter. To meet criteria for SAD, you typically experience:

  • Symptoms that begin and end at the same time each year
  • Depression lasting at least two consecutive years in a seasonal pattern
  • Common signs like low energy, sleeping more than usual, and craving carbs/sugar
  • Loss of interest in activities during the affected season
  • Difficulty functioning in daily life during seasonal episodes

For more information on seasonal affective disorder head to our blog “6 Ways to Fight Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)”.

Persistent Depressive Disorder (PDD)

Also known as dysthymia, PDD is a chronic, less severe form of depression that:

  • Lasts two years or more (for adults) or one year (for children/teens)
  • Has symptoms present most of the day, more days than not

May include:

  • Low self-esteem
  • Low energy or fatigue
  • Poor concentration
  • Feeling hopeless
  • Changes in sleep and appetite

For more details on depression symptoms, head to our blog “ Depression Symptoms: Top Signs You Should Seek Help for Depression.

Remember: Only a licensed mental health professional can diagnose depression, but understanding the patterns and physical signs can help you know when it may be time to seek help.

Am I Depressed?

What Does Depression Feel Like?

Let’s go over what depression can physically feel like. Depression isn’t just emotional—it can show up in your body, too. Some common physical sensations include:

  • Heavy or weighted feeling in the body
  • Constant fatigue or sluggishness
  • Muscle aches or tension without a clear cause
  • Stomachaches or digestive problems
  • Headaches or migraines
  • Feeling physically “slowed down” or moving more slowly than usual

It’s important to remember that while these are the common feelings people with depression can experience, depression can manifest differently for everyone. In fact, depression can even manifest differently across different age groups.

What Does Depression Feel Like

Why am I Sad?

Now that we have touched on depression and what that can feel like, let's touch on sadness. Feeling sad is part of being human—but if the sadness lingers or starts to interfere with your daily life, it’s worth finding out what’s really going on. The best way to do that? Seek professional help.

A licensed mental health provider ( therapist, psychiatrist, or PA/NP in psychiatry) can help you determine whether your sadness is a natural emotional response to life events or a sign of something more serious, like depression. Getting clarity can be a huge relief—because once you know what you’re dealing with, you can take steps toward feeling better!

If your mental health care provider rules out depression, you can still work with them to explore options that support your mental health. This might include individual therapy, lifestyle changes, support groups, or other tools to help you manage stress, process emotions, and improve your overall well-being.

Whether your sadness is temporary or part of a larger mental health condition, talking to a professional is the first step toward understanding yourself and finding the support you need.

How to Overcome Depression

Overcoming depression isn’t about “snapping out of it”—it’s about finding the right combination of treatments, lifestyle changes, and support systems that work for you. Depression can feel isolating, but you don’t have to face it alone. The great news is that depression is treatable!

Below, we’ll explore evidence-based treatment options, alternative remedies, and practical steps you can take at home to support your mental health.

Depression Treatment Options

There is no one-size-fits-all solution for depression, and treatment often works best when multiple approaches are combined. Common, evidence-based treatment options include:

Depression Therapy:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Helps reframe negative thinking patterns and improve coping skills.
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Focuses on emotional regulation, mindfulness, and distress tolerance.
  • Interpersonal Therapy (IPT): Addresses relationship challenges that may contribute to depression.

Depression Medication:

  • Antidepressants, such as SSRIs or SNRIs, can help balance brain chemicals that affect mood.
  • Medication is typically prescribed by a psychiatrist or primary care physician and may be used alongside therapy for better results.

To read some more on depression medications, head to our blog “Common Myths and Misconceptions About Antidepressants

Support Groups

  • Connecting with others who understand your struggles can reduce feelings of isolation.
  • Support groups can be in person or online and offer a safe space to share experiences and coping strategies.

Depression: Alternative Remedies

In addition to traditional treatments, alternative or complementary therapies can be highly effective—especially when depression is resistant to standard care. At Clarity Clinic, we offer advanced treatment programs, including:

TMS Therapy (Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation):

  • TMS therapy for depression is a non-invasive treatment that uses magnetic pulses to stimulate areas of the brain linked to mood regulation. FDA-approved for treatment-resistant depression.
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Outpatient Mental Health Programs for Depression:

  • Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP Program): A structured, full-day mental health treatment program for individuals needing intensive depression care without inpatient hospitalization. Includes therapy, skills training, and psychiatric support.
  • Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP Program): A flexible, multi-day-a-week program for individuals who need more depression support than weekly therapy can provide. Participants can complete our IOP depression treatment program without missing work or school responsibilities. IOP is less intensive than PHP.
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Depression Treatment: Steps You Can Take at Home

While professional treatment is often necessary, there are self-care practices that can complement your recovery and improve day-to-day well-being. We know it can be difficult to complete tasks when you are feeling depressed, take it day by day, small progress is still progress no matter how small!

  • Stay Active: Even light exercise, like walking or yoga, can boost mood by releasing endorphins.
  • Prioritize Sleep: Maintain a consistent sleep schedule to support emotional and physical health.
  • Eat Nourishing Foods: Focus on balanced meals with whole grains, lean proteins, and fruits/vegetables to stabilize energy and mood.
  • Practice Mindfulness: Techniques like meditation, deep breathing, or journaling can help manage stress and negative thoughts.
  • Stay Connected: Make time for supportive friends, family, pets, even if it’s just a quick check-in.
  • Limit Alcohol and Drugs: These substances can worsen depression symptoms and interfere with treatment.

Mental Health Clinic for Depression

If you’re struggling with depression, even the smallest tasks can feel impossible. You might be exhausted, unmotivated, or wondering if things will ever get better. We want you to know—you don’t have to go through this alone, and you can feel better.

At Clarity Clinic, we specialize in helping people move from depression to healing. Our team of compassionate, highly trained psychiatrists, therapists, and mental health professionals work together to create a personalized depression treatment plan that fits your needs—not a one-size-fits-all approach. Whether you benefit most from therapy, medication management, TMS therapy, or structured mental health programs like PHP and IOP, we’ll be by your side every step of the way.

Why choose Clarity Clinic?

  • Comprehensive Care Under One Roof – Therapy, psychiatry, advanced treatments, and intensive programs
  • Specialists in Depression – We have highly trained specialists who will work with you to find the right depression treatment plan for you
  • Convenience and Accessibility – Locations in River North, Evanston, Lakeview Belmont, Lakeview Broadway, the Loop, Arlington Heights, plus secure online therapy for anyone in Illinois
  • Affordable Mental Health Care - We accept most major insurances such as BCBCS, Aetna, Cigna, United Health Care, Medicare, and flexible self-pay options
  • Cutting Edge Treatment - We offer cutting edge depression treatment options such as TMS therapy, PHP programs, IOP programs, and virtual IOP programs
  • A Compassionate, Judgment-Free Environment – We meet you where you are, without pressure or stigma

You may not feel ready to take the first step—but you are capable of taking it. Let us help you rediscover hope, joy, and the parts of life that depression has taken away.

Your next chapter starts here. Schedule your depression treatment consultation today!

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