How to Master Intrusive Thoughts in 5 Simple Steps

How to Master Intrusive Thoughts in 5 Simple Steps

Have you ever been trying to decide what you wanted to do for dinner but another thought popped into your head? As you return your thoughts back to potential dinner options the thought comes back into your mind. 

No matter what you do this thought continues to come into your mind. The worst part about the thoughts is that they are not comforting but disturbing and unwanted. This is what is known as intrusive thoughts.

What are Intrusive Thoughts?

What are Intrusive Thoughts?

Intrusive thoughts are undesired thoughts that you find disturbing and/or distressing. These thoughts seem to appear out of the blue. There is no known reason why intrusive thoughts occur but they are not signs of mental health disorder. 

There is a difference between intrusive thoughts and obsessive thoughts. If you have obsessive thoughts, that is something to be concerned about. Many people who have obsessive thoughts develop ways to rid them from their minds. The act that you do to rid your mind of obsessive thoughts is known as a compulsion. This pattern of behavior is commonly seen in people who struggle with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). 

OCD is a common, chronic, and long-lasting disorder in which a person has uncontrollable, reoccurring thoughts (obsessions) and behaviors (compulsions) that he or she feels the urge to repeat over and over. People with OCD may have symptoms of obsessions, compulsions, or both. If you are concerned your intrusive thoughts are becoming obsessions seek consultation from your doctor because this is a sign of an underlying problem.

While intrusive thoughts and obsessive thoughts can be linked, they are not the same. Many people experience intrusive thoughts, but how can we take control of our minds?

How to Stop Intrusive Thoughts

How to Stop Intrusive Thoughts

  1. Face the intrusive thoughts. Let the thought play out in your mind. Whatever the thoughts are, they are bothering you for a reason because the content in the thoughts hits a nerve that deals with something in your life. These intrusive thoughts go against your core beliefs or values, which also adds to why the thoughts can be so distressing. If you don’t take the time and reflect on what it is about the intrusive thoughts that are disturbing or distressing you can not take the steps to begin to move past the thoughts.
  2. Do not be afraid. Being fearful of your intrusive thoughts only gives them more power. The more power you give your intrusive thoughts, the less control you have. Remember you are in control, not your thoughts. The moment you give control to your intrusive thoughts the harder it is to regain control. Turn them into funny stories, and laugh at how silly they could be. They are just thoughts. Acting on your thoughts is different than having them. Your reactions to your intrusive thoughts are key to how you cope with your thoughts.
  3. Talk with friends and family. Do not be ashamed of your thoughts to the point where you’re hiding from them in your mind and your family and friends. Call up your best friend and say “hey, I’m having these disturbing thoughts and I’m worried.” Talking things out with people you trust can also provide insight into what about the thoughts are so distressing or even where they could be emerging from.
  4. Do not begin to change your behaviors. For example, if you have intrusive thoughts about hurting animals, but love animals, do not start avoiding animals. If you know at your core that you love animals and you do not want to hurt them, listen to that part of yourself. Live your life as you normally would. Again, by changing things in your life that you normally do, you are giving these intrusive thoughts unnecessary power. Have thought, let it pass, and continue what you were doing.
  5. Be confident in who you are. Do not allow your thoughts to make you doubt yourself. You know who you are and what you believe. If you don’t believe in yourself, you can begin to believe in your intrusive thoughts. Do what is necessary to keep in touch with yourself. Watch movies you enjoy, spend time with friends, walk your dog, travel, whatever it is you enjoy and do those things. Don’t lose sight of who you are because of intrusive thoughts.

We can never fully control our thoughts, but we can control our reactions to them.

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